This weekend, Stuart and I went to Boston. Now, those of you who have been following the plot long enough know that Boston and I do not have a very good relationship. I sneer at her skyline and I scoff at her “subway”. When I told my family that I was going to Boston with Stuart, my brother coughed on his drink and said, “Are you running a FEVER? You HATE Boston.” Boston itself, surely, has a sign somewhere that says, “Boston: Almost Everyone Loves It Here, Except Krissa.” Everyone knows this about me. Even the Bostonians I like know my feelings about Boston. I say all this in anticipation of all you damned Bostonians that are inevitably going to whine and complain in my comment box, after reading the ensuing post in which I am COMPLETELY IRRATIONAL AND LAUNCH SNARKY MISSIVES AT BOSTON FOR ALMOST NO REASON AT ALL. Please refrain. I know you love Boston. And I love you. But I don’t love Boston. OKAY?
Where was I?
Oh, right. Stuart and I went to Boston on Saturday. And Saturday in Boston, despite the frigid temperatures, was very pleasant. We had tea and beer atop the Hub with Bryan Adams and his charming girlfriend Sonia, who took time out of a family wedding weekend to welcome us to town. That was rocking cool of them and I totally am sort of in love with them forever now, and the Top of the Hub was wonderful. In New York, when you’re forty odd stories above the ground, you still feel like you’re surrounded by buildings, but in Boston, it seriously felt like we were IN THE SKY. With the exception of the Hancock building, it was like we could see clear to Canada. We spent an hour pointing out little churches and squares down at ground level, and it was really the charmingest thing EVER.
We even started making plans to return to Boston (!) in the summer, to see the swans at the Public Gardens and take a whale-watching tour from the Harbor. We loved Commonwealth Avenue and wondered what it must have been like at the turn of the century. Standing in the middle of the Public Gardens, looking west as the sun set over the statue of mumble mumble dude who fought for america WHEEE mumble mumble, Stuart even said, “I’m starting to see what the fuss is about Boston.” It was truly lovely. Pleasant.
Very pleasant, that is, until the very end. The very end was very far from very pleasant.
We got to Back Bay Station exactly four minutes after the 6:58 PM train left for Rhode Island. Yes, okay, we should have picked up a schedule when we arrived. But
1. they weren’t conveniently located anywhere and
2. in New York, where Big Boy Mass Transit lives, there’s always another train after a few minutes, thirty at the most.
Not so in “quaint”, “historical” Boston. We were told by the man working the counter (who, by the way, probably threw the first barrel of tea overboard, he was JUST THAT OLD) that we’d have to wait until 8:50 PM. It was seven o’clock and we’d have to wait until EIGHT FIFTY IN THE EVENING. ONE HOUR AND FIFTY MINUTES.
I wanted to cry. Then I wanted to be back in New York. “Just pretend that you’re in Penn Station,” I told my whimpering self, “it’s okay, you’re back where you belong, where they have TRAINS THAT RUN, you’re GOING TO MAKE IT, DAMNIT.” Sadly, wishes : horses :: beggars : ride.
So we exited Back Bay Station to try and find shelter. Two blocks away, fortuituously located on Stuart Street, there was a Starbucks, the Beacon of all Waiting Peoples. And this, dear readers, is what we found:

Finally, two chairs in a little corner with a little table. Finally, we could rest our cold and weary bones, after spending the day tramping from Back Bay to the Prudential across the Commons to Fanueil Hall down to State Street onto the T to Back Bay again. Finally, we could have a cup of tea and at least relax for forty minutes, until eight PM, when the cafe closed. It was so nice, it was like this:

Stuart opened his book and I just tucked my tired boot-clad feet under myself and felt warm for the first time in several hours. I’m already a great proponent of Starbucks as a convenient and effective business model that has a transparent and fair employee policy and a decent cup of coffee. But this open Starbucks, with couch-chairs (rare!) and a strong cup of tea made me want to SERIOUSLY MARRY STARBUCKS FOREVER. As I regained feeling in my ears and toes, I started composing an Ode to Starbucks. It went like this:
“O, Starbucks, in times of crises and hurt feet, in times of desperate need for JUST ANY CUP OF COFFEE, in times of confusion about where to meet your friends, in times of-”
“Excuse me,” the college-age barista jerked me out of my ode to his employer. “We’re closing in ten minutes.”
“WHAT? It says 8PM on the door.”
“Yeah, well, we’re a little slow, so we’re allowed to close up and leave.”
Asdkjfhsakfjnsadkjf?!?!? was pretty much all my brain could muster. That translates roughly into WHAT THE FUCK YOU STUPID STINKING COFFEE-SERVING KRISSA-HATING BASTARDFACE HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME ARGH SMASHY SMASHY SOB.
Now, there are two points I need to clarify.
1. It wasn’t that slow. Someone had come in every five minutes and there were exactly three of the five tables with customers at them, still drinking their Starbucks Brand beverages. And
2. Don’t give me that Poor Employee Crap. I worked at Starbucks too, and we had really slow nights where there was NOBODY in the store and just two or three people smoking their tenth cigarette at the tables outside and we STILL couldn’t close the store thirty minutes early because we felt like leaving. On the Fourth of July, our manager told us that if we made NO SALES for TWENTY MINUTES, then we could go. It didn’t happen. I know what it’s like to want to close up and go home, I truly do. That doesn’t mean you do it when there are Customers Who Are Cold And Barely Like Boston As It Is.
But I was too tired and disoriented and cold to disagree with this guy, even though later, I realized what complete and utter bollocks that was and should have insisted that he allow us to remain there until eight. Instead, I whimpered and sniffled and made this face a lot:

We stumbled out into the icy air at 7:35, still with over an hour to kill on the increasingly Mean Streets of Boston. I don’t say “MEAN” in the sense of “STOLE MY LUNCH MONEY”. I say “MEAN” in the sense of “WHERE ARE ALL THE GODDAMNED COFFEESHOPS AND DELI COUNTERS AND BOOKSTORES”. For about eight minutes, we stood there trying to figure out why we’d come here at all and if we could teleport ourselves back to civilization New York. And then we decided to shiver our way to the Prudential Center and hope to God that the Barnes and Noble was more humane than the Starbucks. And by “humane”, I mean, “OPEN TO A REASONABLE TIME OF NIGHT LIKE ELEVEN.”
On the way there, I started to get really irrational, even for me, and I’m the girl that won’t eat broccoli because it looks like little trees. I swore that if the Barnes and Noble was closed, I’d never come to Boston ever again and I completely meant it (even more than I mean it when I swear that I love you bitches but if you trash me on my comments for getting mad at Boston I WILL TOTALLY CUT YOU). Luckily for us (and for Boston, and for not getting flamed on my blog for swearing off Boston), it was totally open and full of things like BOOKS and WARMTH and we sat in the bookstore cafe, elated by our victory over freezing temperatures and surly baristas. We stayed there until 8:30, reading travel guides to Prague and Terry Pratchett books (and now we can even go BACK to Boston in the summer for swans and whales and more quaint lovely streets because I didn’t have to swear OFF Boston because of one stupid train and one stupid barista but seriously next time we’re picking up a train schedule and bringing a portable 24-hour diner with us).
As we left the store to return to Back Bay and get back to Rhode Island, I said, “Boston has redeemed itself a little,” but then Stuart pointed out that by that, I really meant “Barnes and Noble still rocks my face off as always” but also with a tinge of sadness because I also really meant “this is the first time that Starbucks has failed me and I don’t like it when Starbucks fails me because they have Caramel Apple Ciders and that bitch I knew in college who hated Starbucks will be right, the same close-minded brat who coincidentally was from BOSTON”.
As we rode the clanking wheezing commuter train out of the Capital of the Revolution, we both still felt a little like this, but it was mostly for dramatic effect SO PLEASE DO NOT ATTACK ME I’M MOSTLY KIDDING ABOUT THE BOSTON-HATING:

In all seriousness, it was a wonderful day in a lovely city. It wasn’t Boston’s fault that we got kicked out of Starbucks into the freezing cold. That was the barista’s fault, who didn’t get a tip THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
But I’m telling you man, while cobblestone streets and quaint winding alleys are all well and good, Boston could stand to learn a thing or two about TRAINS. See also, RUNNING THEM. SEE ALSO, NEW YORK.
I’m just saying, is all.




It’s all true.
You’re both big babies.
New York has trains to Rhode Island every half-hour?
That’s news to me.
I HATE BOSTON TOO! So glad you said that! My husband dragged me to Boston, in Febuary, while 8 months pregnant. It was -752 degrees. Every road was fucked up due to the ‘big fuckin dig’, I swear everyone was wearing a cardigan and possibly pearls…I hated every moment. The only good thing that happened was the tomato basil soup at ‘THE HOUSE OF BLUES’. Thankfully we got to leave a whole day early because of a HUGE BLIZZARD that we got to drive home in for SIX HOURS! I hear they have knocked down THE HOUSE OF BLUES. No soup? No reason to go back to Boston. Glad to know someone out there is on my side. Maybe one day we can go to Philly together! I heart Philly!
I live in Boston but I am not going to go psycho on you!
I really do love it here but the city certainly has its issues. The freezing cold, for one- BRRR! The ABSURD accent, 2. The roads, 3.
And, of course, the subway. At least you didn’t get stranded in the middle of the night because the subway stops running at 12:30. Yes, 12 freaking 30…
What do I know though? I am originally from New Jersey.
You guys are cute with your pouty faces.
i actually hate boston too. well, to be fair, i don’t hate it. i just don’t like it. it just doesn’t feel like a city should, somehow.
but i too have friends who are loyal to boston, and i too must hope that they forgive me my boston-hating.
good pouty pictures. stuart looks like he’s going to beat up starbucks for you. or boston.
you know, it could be Rhode Island’s fault. ever try to get anywhere on NJ Transit? eerily similar but add many more creepy types and bad smells.
hmm. I’m going to Boston in April. I consider myself to be forewarned.
I know I’m a bastion of bile and vitriol, so it’ll come as no surprise that I, too, hate Boston. I don’t really know why, apart from its non-navigability (I get lost every forkin’ time I have to drive there, not on the way in, but only as I’m trying to LEAVE! WHY would any sensible city that knows I loathe it want to keep me?!) and the fact that one of its suburbs is infested with that dread university whose name begins with “h”, much like “heinous” and “hideous” and “hyaena”. (On the other hand, they have MIT, and we love Mighty-Mighty M.I.T., though I also can’t explain why.) I must note, however, that while it may be better than in other places, public transport in NYC still sucks entirely too hard and uses its teeth.
I’m a little mad for you that you were kicked out of Starbucks just b/c they wanted to close early. I’ve worked food service too–Einstein’s Bagels specifically–and we could not close early unless it was > one hour from the time we were supposed to close *and* we hadn’t made a sale for 30 minutes. WTF kicks people out to close early?? I’d write an e-mail via their corporate site, but I’m a bitch that way.
PRAGUE! TRAVEL GUIDES! It rules here (in Prague, that is) and while I’m still bemoaning the lack of Starbucks, the coffee here is way better than back home in the States anyway, and you can always find shelter in some cozy little basement pub. Last night I stepped out of one to see snow falling across the light of Prague Castle… and walked a few feet to the tram stop for a quick ride home on the most reliable & perfect public transport system on the planet. (I’m just sayin… it’s worth a visit!)
Geeze. I live in Boston, love it and feel like I just got spanked.
Yes, but did you LIKE it?
I kid, Lainey. You’re more than welcome to hate New York for being arrogant, loud, polluted, snobbish, and full of those goddamned snotnosed Yankee fans. I won’t be hurt.
Technically, I believe it is against the law to actually kick someone out of an establishment prior to the closing time. (In fact, I think the law actually states that you cannot kick someone out even after suggesting that they leave upon the hours of closing. But, I could be wrong.) You can close before the hours of operations but, you can’t kick out (paying) customers presently enjoying the interior warmth.
Again, I only THINK this is a law. And if it isn’t, it should be!
I have the same problem with Boston’s twin city Philadelphia. Whaddya mean trains run on the 1/2 hour. In rush hour?
Please tell NYC for me that I’m only living here temporarily and I promise I’ll be back. Like you, you lucky gal.
I’m through-and-through a Boston girl, but I have to say, you’re totally right about the train issue (and don’t even get me started on the subway). What I love most about Boston, and I think you’ve kind of gotten this sense, too, is its subtlety. The museums (dozens of them, by the way) and bodegas (okay, not so many) are there, you just have to look a little harder for them. I’ve lived in (or very near) Boston my entire life, and I’m still learning new things about it. As a city, it’s a little more understated than New York is, but has just as much to offer.
PS — House of Blues is now Brother Jimmy’s (not torn down), and that technically not Boston, it’s Cambridge.
PPS — The people of Boston are not rude. There are some rude people in Boston, yes, but there are even more rude people in New York, though not as many as London. Maybe we should formulate some kind of objective survey and get some numbers on this…